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Friday, January 15, 2010
why men fail in dating
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With
Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of
These Deadly Common Mistakes...
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really
attractive women never seem to be attracted to
"nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
female friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they were never
romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how
"nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do
because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION
for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of
logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET
OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on
it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that
you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman
that they REALLY like... but she's just not
interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel
differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER
CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that FEELING by
being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or
Permission
In our desire to please women (which we
mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys
are always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men
who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to
like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well
means "always getting her approval and permission
for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval.
Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their
approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if
Wussy guys who chase her around and want her
approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With
Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a
nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had
her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her
even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a
LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear
message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so
I'm going to try to buy your attention and
affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to
women as over-compensation for insecurity, and
weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I
said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most
men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too
early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive
women are being approached in one way or another
ALL THE TIME by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several
times a DAY by men who are interested. This
translate into dozens of times per week, and often
HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of
men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than just
about anything is a guy who starts saying "You
know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two
dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like
all the other guys who fall for her too fast...
and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For
Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes
to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman
he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five
full years now, I can tell you that women usually
have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by
things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more
average and unattractive men with beautiful women
than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities
in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man
makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and
communication correctly, you can make women feel
the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you
that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young
woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how
to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make
is giving up before they've even gotten started...
because they think that attractive women are only
interested in men who have looks and money... or
guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a
certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only
interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a
man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women
like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use
them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just
because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use
your body language and communication correctly,
you can make women feel the same kind of powerful
sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look
to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys
use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like
them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can
walk all over... Women aren't attracted to
Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than
men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for
example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and
you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and
exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there
looking at her and getting nervous, she won't
help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and
dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking
her out, kissing her, getting physical...
everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you will probably screw it up... and LOSE
EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY
how to go from one step to the next with a
woman... from the first meeting, all the way to
the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from
EVER having the kind of success with women that
they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look
weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I
figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the
fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and
get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a
woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get
up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that
night... right on the spot I made the decision to
do whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all
kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all
out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get
her number almost instantly. I've dated models,
I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal,
regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no
longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I
don't know how to meet women... and I might wind
up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and
meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've done
seminars on both coasts of the United States...
and taught tens of thousands of men all around the
world.
In addition to this email newsletter, I also
have a killer downloadable eBook that you can
download and be reading in literally MINUTES
from right now.
It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of
specific strategies for overcoming fear,
approaching women, getting phone numbers and email
address from women quickly, great inexpensive or
even free date ideas, and how to take things to a
"physical" level smoothly and easily.
Download Your Copy Of The Online eBook Here
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook
I've also put together what is arguably the
most complete educational product on planet Earth
for DRAMATICALLY increasing your success with
women.
This new digitally recorded audio and video
series contains over TWELVE full hours of me
teaching all of the ideas, concepts, techniques,
scripts, and secrets that it has taken me YEARS to
learn.
Now you can get all the benefits of hearing me
teach my best ideas, all from the comfort of your
own home.
In this day and age of "instant gratification",
I realize that this might just sound like another
late-night infomercial filled with a lot of
unsubstantiated claims and promises.
Well, that's not the case.
I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy
making this program. I wanted to design and create
a program that ANY guy could easily understand and
start using IMMEDIATELY to meet and date more
women... without having to lie, do dishonest
things, or be "manipulative".
I now believe that ANY man can be more
successful with women and dating, and I get emails
every day with success stories from guys who are
using this program to meet and date wonderful
women.
I know, I know... an audio and video program
that can teach a regular guy how to be more
successful in the dating world? No way.
Well believe me, this program will DRAMATICALLY
increase your success with women... I absolutely
guarantee it 100%.
If you'd like to take your success with women
and dating to the next level, and have the kind of
success that you've always wanted, then go check
out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program.
To get all the details, and check out some
great free audio and video samples of the program,
just go here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries
And I'll talk to you again in a couple of days...
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs
I've created to help you learn how to attract and
meet women. My programs cover ALL aspects... from
"Inner Game" stuff like how to overcome fear and a
limiting self-image, to specific techniques like
how to approach women, how to meet women online,
and how to make sure that your conversation
creates ATTRACTION. You can check them all out
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of
These Deadly Common Mistakes...
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really
attractive women never seem to be attracted to
"nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
female friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they were never
romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how
"nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do
because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION
for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of
logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET
OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on
it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that
you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman
that they REALLY like... but she's just not
interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel
differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER
CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that FEELING by
being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or
Permission
In our desire to please women (which we
mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys
are always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men
who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to
like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well
means "always getting her approval and permission
for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval.
Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their
approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if
Wussy guys who chase her around and want her
approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With
Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a
nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had
her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her
even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a
LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear
message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so
I'm going to try to buy your attention and
affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to
women as over-compensation for insecurity, and
weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I
said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most
men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too
early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive
women are being approached in one way or another
ALL THE TIME by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several
times a DAY by men who are interested. This
translate into dozens of times per week, and often
HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of
men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than just
about anything is a guy who starts saying "You
know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two
dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like
all the other guys who fall for her too fast...
and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For
Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes
to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman
he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five
full years now, I can tell you that women usually
have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by
things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more
average and unattractive men with beautiful women
than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities
in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man
makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and
communication correctly, you can make women feel
the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you
that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young
woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how
to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make
is giving up before they've even gotten started...
because they think that attractive women are only
interested in men who have looks and money... or
guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a
certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only
interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a
man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women
like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use
them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just
because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use
your body language and communication correctly,
you can make women feel the same kind of powerful
sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look
to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys
use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like
them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can
walk all over... Women aren't attracted to
Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than
men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for
example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and
you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and
exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there
looking at her and getting nervous, she won't
help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and
dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking
her out, kissing her, getting physical...
everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you will probably screw it up... and LOSE
EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY
how to go from one step to the next with a
woman... from the first meeting, all the way to
the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from
EVER having the kind of success with women that
they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look
weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I
figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the
fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and
get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a
woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get
up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that
night... right on the spot I made the decision to
do whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all
kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all
out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get
her number almost instantly. I've dated models,
I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal,
regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no
longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I
don't know how to meet women... and I might wind
up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and
meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've done
seminars on both coasts of the United States...
and taught tens of thousands of men all around the
world.
In addition to this email newsletter, I also
have a killer downloadable eBook that you can
download and be reading in literally MINUTES
from right now.
It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of
specific strategies for overcoming fear,
approaching women, getting phone numbers and email
address from women quickly, great inexpensive or
even free date ideas, and how to take things to a
"physical" level smoothly and easily.
Download Your Copy Of The Online eBook Here
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook
I've also put together what is arguably the
most complete educational product on planet Earth
for DRAMATICALLY increasing your success with
women.
This new digitally recorded audio and video
series contains over TWELVE full hours of me
teaching all of the ideas, concepts, techniques,
scripts, and secrets that it has taken me YEARS to
learn.
Now you can get all the benefits of hearing me
teach my best ideas, all from the comfort of your
own home.
In this day and age of "instant gratification",
I realize that this might just sound like another
late-night infomercial filled with a lot of
unsubstantiated claims and promises.
Well, that's not the case.
I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy
making this program. I wanted to design and create
a program that ANY guy could easily understand and
start using IMMEDIATELY to meet and date more
women... without having to lie, do dishonest
things, or be "manipulative".
I now believe that ANY man can be more
successful with women and dating, and I get emails
every day with success stories from guys who are
using this program to meet and date wonderful
women.
I know, I know... an audio and video program
that can teach a regular guy how to be more
successful in the dating world? No way.
Well believe me, this program will DRAMATICALLY
increase your success with women... I absolutely
guarantee it 100%.
If you'd like to take your success with women
and dating to the next level, and have the kind of
success that you've always wanted, then go check
out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program.
To get all the details, and check out some
great free audio and video samples of the program,
just go here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries
And I'll talk to you again in a couple of days...
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Don't forget to check out all of the programs
I've created to help you learn how to attract and
meet women. My programs cover ALL aspects... from
"Inner Game" stuff like how to overcome fear and a
limiting self-image, to specific techniques like
how to approach women, how to meet women online,
and how to make sure that your conversation
creates ATTRACTION. You can check them all out
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog/
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
love rules
Love rule#1
Smile
Smile. Women are smile-addicts. A few well-placed smiles, a happy attitude, some (non-erotic!) jokes here and there and you can win a woman's heart faster than a handsome tall guy, who is grumpy.
One reason why women react so positively to smiling and humor is probably that it shows that the man is not dangerous. It could very well be that many women want strong men, but, at the same time, are afraid of them. Smiling and being friendly compensates this fear.
Another reason could be that smiling shows you are healthy. OK, this is not 100% true, but usually ill persons don't smile, do they?
In this sense: Look like enjoying yourself whatever you do!
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Dating recommendation#2
No hunchback
Stand straight and sit up. It shows that you are strong, well trained and not ill. And it will make you taller.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Love rule#3
Shaved Face
Many women love shaved faces. I wouldn't say that ALL women love shaved men (especially if you live in a country where a beard/moustache is common) but it's safer to be shaved than unshaved.
Moreover many women have bisexual tendencies (or at least consider other female faces as beautiful), thus a soft face may be considered as "pretty".
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership rule#4
Deep Voice
Use a deep voice. If your voice cracks sometimes (= uses high tones) then you need to train to keep it low. A high tone or cracking voice sounds immature and adolescent.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Dating recommendation#5
Don't sweat, don't smell
Use deodorants. Under normal circumstances most women hate sweat odor. Hate it.
I am not even talking about using perfumes. Perfumes can be used ADDITIONALLY. I am talking about non-smelling, which is more important than good-smelling.
And *cough* pick-up lines as "I am stinking. Please wash me!" are wrong.
Marginal note: You cannot worsen things by non-smelling, you can however worsen things by perfumes (if you use the same/similar perfume her former boy-friend used). Please also read Different aftershaves.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Dating recommendation#6
Taboo subjects
The reason of talking to a girl is to establish a relaxed atmosphere and to be friendly. Thus don't get involved into highly arguable subjects such as "Why death penalties for minors should be allowed" or "Why Greenpeace is doing more harm than good" or "Christmas has been invented by Satan, the Lord of hells" or something of that sort. Keep the affinity high and avoid "field mines".
Moreover the No Sex Talks rule applies and that's why you shouldn't even mention words like "feminism" or "herpes" or "Islam" or "hemorrhoids". Talking about "Why feminism is causing cellulite" OR "It's a pity that there is no cure against hemorrhoids" OR the pick up line "Want some free breast cancer inspection?" is plain WRONG.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship advice#7
Show tolerance, be easy
You should show a tolerant and open-minded attitude towards many subjects. Imagine the following sentences:
A: "All bugga-huggawoks always make trouble. I hate them"
B: "Bugga-huggawoks are often difficult. Some of them are OK though".
Now, whatever bugga-huggawoks are, sentence B seems to be more reasonable. If you start sentences like A and insist that there are no exceptions and get angry then
* you involve yourself in an uneasy talk
* you show intolerant temper
* you show extreme attitudes ("all", "always","hate")
* you show that you have less knowledge than someone who says sentence B (because he knows good bugga-huggawoks and you don't)
* you show that you have little experience, since there are always exceptions, but you never encountered them
* since you have little experience you are a prejudiced hater ("I hate them")
* you don't admit that you are wrong most probably
* you show sarcasm and negativity and that tells that you are probably on the losing side of life (see Don't symbolize a loser)
ANYTHING that can cause YOU a bad mood or HER a bad mood should be avoided (unless you are self-confident enough to make her smile again). Please also read Smile and Don't be a Crybaby.
Maybe the only exception (where you actually CAN say that you hate something) are "spiders". Women usually hate spiders/bugs/midges/... too. But don't forget to add "I usually kill them whenever I see them" to become her hero :-)
Moreover, don't start fights. Fights are something you do not want to have in a human-human relationship. Fights have winners and losers. But you shouldn't want to make your partner lose. Nor your partner you. Do some "peaceful negotiating" where everybody wins instead.
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Partnership advice#8
Say her Name
Get her first name. Say: "Hello, I am John" and then she will most probably tell you her name out of politeness. Use her name thruout the talks with her. This alone creates a more intimate atmosphere.
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Love advice#9
Wear a fluffy pullover
If it's cold outside then wear the most fluffy pullover you can find. Many women will get the desire to hug and snuggle this pullover. It will create a friendly hug-atmosphere.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership rule#10
Different Aftershaves
If you are dating a woman on several days then use a different aftershave/perfume each time. Ask her how she likes it and then use the one she gave the most positive response to.
You may also use more expensive perfumes to not smell like anybody else. If a woman knows a little bit about how other men smell she will notice the difference.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship tip#11
Don't be drunk
For women who want to make the first step and are incredibly shy a drunk man may be welcome. But for most women a drunk man is a no-go. The alcohol stench and the slavering is usually UNWANTED. Moreover you may also get a bad fame.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership tip#12
Dress nicely
Wear good clothes, e.g. a good shirt and a tie. Probably you should ask some girls what clothes they like a man to wear or you should go clothes-shopping with a female relative or a female co-worker.
Important note: A lot of women pay a lot attention to SHOES.
Don't wear those clothes at all costs even when they are inappropriate or don't suit you. Example: Don't wear a tie and your new shoes while swimming. OK, this is an exaggeration, but imagine yourself going bowling and you wear beautiful but uncomfortable clothes that make you sweat? Or going to the movies with a Hawaiian T-shirt.
On the other hand (since you are looking for a girl-friend anywhere) dress well whenever and wherever you go. You go shopping? Shave and dress well! You go to an exhibition? Shave and dress well. You go to a football match? Shave and dress well!
Another important thought: Woman are usually very "clothes-aware". In fact they communicate thru clothes and thru make-up (they wear shorter skirts and redder lipstick to show they are datable). Thus by wearing good clothes YOU establish immediately a communication line, too.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership rule#13
Stay fit
Be fit. Do some sport.
* If you are fit it will make you look better
* If you are fit it will increase your self-esteem
* If you are fit it will help you in the bedroom department
Now what can happen if you are not looking fit and healthy? Two major things:
1. Others may think you are ill and this will cause a repulsive reaction
2. You yourself may think you are ill and thus you may walk around with the "hidden wish" that "others should stay away"
In this sense: Do some walks, take some vitamins and lose some pounds.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#14
Future Father
The difference in thinking of a man and a woman can produce great misunderstandings but can help you to date more women.
Imagine the following situation: You sit alone at the bar. A woman comes along and wants to stand you a beer and go home with her. You would go most probably. Most men would.
Now consider the opposite: You are a man and you go around and ask other women directly to stand them a beer and come home with you. Most probably they won't go with you! The reason is a difference in thinking. For you as a man an offer must make "logical sense" or "sexual sense". For a woman it must make "emotional sense" and "friendship sense".
That means every approach to a woman should have the ingredient of "Look, lady, I could be the father of your children. I am well-dressed, discreet, humorous and understanding".
Would you (as a man) ever refuse a sex offer from a woman just because a) she is not well-dressed b) she is not humorous c) she often talks about sex d) she is not understanding? Most probably you wouldn't. You see? A total differing perception system "Woman vs. Man".
Even if she wants a one-night-stand only you should approach her as the "future father of her children". I am not talking about cheesy pick up lines as "Wanna be pregnant by Christmas?". I am talking about the "approaching attitude".
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Love rule#15
Serious Boy-friend
Another theme related to the Future father is that of the Serious boy-friend. Although a woman wants probably merely a short affair it doesn't mean that you should not take her seriously. I don't mean to pounce on her with statements like "We will stay together forever". I am talking about a "serious attitude". I am talking about "not treating her as a day fly". Treat her politely, don't take her for granted. Treat her as a potential partner for a longer lasting relationship.
You can corroborate your serious intentions by mentioning future plans: Plan to go out next Friday to X, and next week to Y and next month to Z.
This also applies to the time AFTER you have established a relationship (or after sex). Reassure her, that you still like her. If you go, then tell her where to and when you will meet again. Make her breakfast and read Little Things for big Love.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Love rule#16
Don't be a shock for parents
The Future Father rule also explains why you have to dress nicely: The girl has to be sure that she can introduce you to her parents (or to close friends) without making a fool out of herself. OK, this is not a strict motif but why shouldn't you dress well anyway?
Please also read: Be presentable.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Dating recommendation#17
Don't shout, don't interrupt
If you watch TV talks closely you will notice that women are nearly always interrupted by men but not vice versa. Try to be different in that regard. Do not shout, do not interrupt a woman.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#18
Don't be a Crybaby
If you give vent to your feelings this can tell the woman that you are weak and she needs to be your talk friend. But to date her you need to show the direct opposite: That YOU are HER strong shoulder; that you are self-confident; that you know what to do; and that SHE can rely on YOUR emotional strength to be a help for HER.
Thus starting to talk about "your past mistakes", about "your problems", about "why girls have left you" is the wrong thing to do.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#19
Let women talk and help
Women love to talk (just think of how long they talk on the telephone). Women like to help (just think of a typical "female" job: nurse, kindergarten teacher, geriatric nurse...). Combine those attributes and you got a talk up and running by asking the woman: "Could I ask you for help? Could you tell me why/what/how/...". Ask her any question you like as long as the question is non-answerable by a simple "Yes" or "No".
Believe it or not, but maybe you have failed in your last dating attempt because you maneuvered yourself into dead-end answers. If you ask a girl "Have you been long here?" then practically anything she can answer is a dead end. She could answer "No, not long" or "A couple of minutes" but both answers do not lead into a nice conversational flow.
Many men (since men are practical-minded) want a "clear and simple" answer. For dating purposes that kind of "questioning strategy" is absolutely wrong.
Train by simply re-phrasing some of your question. Wrong: "Do you like this place?", right: "What do you think about this place?". You get the idea. In other words: Let her TALK. (This is just a simple example and I am not telling you to ask women that question).
Or ask her something like: "What do you think is the most common flaw men have?" or "I am writing for dating-forum.com. Could you help me by telling me what feature your ideal man should have?". Let her talk for hours.
Typical "open questions" start with
* Why....?
* How....?
* What....?
* Where/When.....?
You get the idea.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#20
Be a Friend
There is an important side note to Let women talk and help: Women need good friends. Start to be her understanding friend and she will be grateful and rewarding. She may even introduce you to her other girl-friends. This Be a friend rule is also a side rule of Future father and Serious boyfriend.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#21
Trust barrier
Women have the fear to "open up" too much. To "invest too much emotions". To be "hurt too easily". That is a barrier you must overcome by making her TRUST you.
Imagine a world where women had more muscles than men and were taller and were known to be more aggressive. Now additionally add the need to have a real friend and the urge to share emotions. I bet in such a world men would build these "trust barriers", too.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship advice#22
Don't touch a Woman
Don't touch. Being touched without having agreed to be touched IS a real turn-off for women. You can spoil everything.
However you can touch her by accident after a certain relaxed atmosphere has been established: While reaching to something, while sitting down...
Moreover you can use "excuses" to touch her, e.g. when slow dancing. Read also Learn how to palm read.
Touching shows her that you are a man. A possible boy-friend. And not one of those too-friendly-nice-guys. Moreover a touch cuts directly thru her social barriers (= bypasses her defense system) and thus is a form of heavy non-verbal communication.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Dating advice#23
Touch softly
If you touch her, then very softly. Hug, snuggle, cuddle. Women love soft touches. So once you managed to be more intimate with her (dancing, holding hands) don't spoil that by being "too blatantly sexual".
You can hold her hands and let her feel that she is admired.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership advice#24
Magnetic Mystery Man
Many women don't simply date YOU. They date a mysterious man who actually happens to walk by with your body. Thus clouding yourself in a mystery can help. If you walk in and the girl thinks "Wait a minute, who is this man??" then you have already hit the first target. "Aroused by curiosity" so to speak.
You could tell things from your life, but without giving the full background just to "mysteriousify" yourself . You could say, "I saved many lives of stray cats... these poor little creatures." (only if it's true, of course) but not telling WHY. She wouldn't know whether you are a veterinarian or a fireman or whatever. Woman LIKE to be in a wonderworld with their fantasies going (= too much information spoils fantasies).
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership rule#25
Fascinating non-answers
As a continuation of the Magnetic Mystery Man rule you can fascinate a girl by making incomplete sentences: "Hey, you know whom you remind me of? By the way I am John. Do you like this place here?"
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship advice#26
Learn how to palm read
This is a highly interesting technique because is combines several tips on this site: Learn how to read the future from her palm:
* You can hold her hand while reading.
* Reading palms is always good for fun, smiles and a relaxed atmosphere. Women love that.
* You can get sexual without actually being sexual ("You will have three children and many love affairs"). You just tell the "facts" as an "independent" third party. It will put her in a sexual mood anyway.
* You get her fantasies going
* You make her interested (everybody wants to know the future)
* You make her feel interesting (since you even want to "read her life's destiny")
* You do her a favor (since palm reading usually costs something)
* You show that you are something special (not many people can read palms)
* You show her that you are empathic and spiritual and non-materialistic (not many boys are esoteric-minded)
* You learn a lot of things about her (since she will be telling you "Yes, this is true" or "No, I don't think so")
* You show her that she can be your friend (since she already tells you her secrets)
* You are surrounded by a mystery ("Hey, does this boy really know everything about me? Who is he anyway?")
* Nearly automatically she will propose (after you have finished to read her palm) to read the palms of her girl-friends.
It takes only a palm reader book and a one or two days of reading.
One of the best methods ever. http://www.100-dating-tips.com/
Smile
Smile. Women are smile-addicts. A few well-placed smiles, a happy attitude, some (non-erotic!) jokes here and there and you can win a woman's heart faster than a handsome tall guy, who is grumpy.
One reason why women react so positively to smiling and humor is probably that it shows that the man is not dangerous. It could very well be that many women want strong men, but, at the same time, are afraid of them. Smiling and being friendly compensates this fear.
Another reason could be that smiling shows you are healthy. OK, this is not 100% true, but usually ill persons don't smile, do they?
In this sense: Look like enjoying yourself whatever you do!
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Dating recommendation#2
No hunchback
Stand straight and sit up. It shows that you are strong, well trained and not ill. And it will make you taller.
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Love rule#3
Shaved Face
Many women love shaved faces. I wouldn't say that ALL women love shaved men (especially if you live in a country where a beard/moustache is common) but it's safer to be shaved than unshaved.
Moreover many women have bisexual tendencies (or at least consider other female faces as beautiful), thus a soft face may be considered as "pretty".
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Partnership rule#4
Deep Voice
Use a deep voice. If your voice cracks sometimes (= uses high tones) then you need to train to keep it low. A high tone or cracking voice sounds immature and adolescent.
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Dating recommendation#5
Don't sweat, don't smell
Use deodorants. Under normal circumstances most women hate sweat odor. Hate it.
I am not even talking about using perfumes. Perfumes can be used ADDITIONALLY. I am talking about non-smelling, which is more important than good-smelling.
And *cough* pick-up lines as "I am stinking. Please wash me!" are wrong.
Marginal note: You cannot worsen things by non-smelling, you can however worsen things by perfumes (if you use the same/similar perfume her former boy-friend used). Please also read Different aftershaves.
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Dating recommendation#6
Taboo subjects
The reason of talking to a girl is to establish a relaxed atmosphere and to be friendly. Thus don't get involved into highly arguable subjects such as "Why death penalties for minors should be allowed" or "Why Greenpeace is doing more harm than good" or "Christmas has been invented by Satan, the Lord of hells" or something of that sort. Keep the affinity high and avoid "field mines".
Moreover the No Sex Talks rule applies and that's why you shouldn't even mention words like "feminism" or "herpes" or "Islam" or "hemorrhoids". Talking about "Why feminism is causing cellulite" OR "It's a pity that there is no cure against hemorrhoids" OR the pick up line "Want some free breast cancer inspection?" is plain WRONG.
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Relationship advice#7
Show tolerance, be easy
You should show a tolerant and open-minded attitude towards many subjects. Imagine the following sentences:
A: "All bugga-huggawoks always make trouble. I hate them"
B: "Bugga-huggawoks are often difficult. Some of them are OK though".
Now, whatever bugga-huggawoks are, sentence B seems to be more reasonable. If you start sentences like A and insist that there are no exceptions and get angry then
* you involve yourself in an uneasy talk
* you show intolerant temper
* you show extreme attitudes ("all", "always","hate")
* you show that you have less knowledge than someone who says sentence B (because he knows good bugga-huggawoks and you don't)
* you show that you have little experience, since there are always exceptions, but you never encountered them
* since you have little experience you are a prejudiced hater ("I hate them")
* you don't admit that you are wrong most probably
* you show sarcasm and negativity and that tells that you are probably on the losing side of life (see Don't symbolize a loser)
ANYTHING that can cause YOU a bad mood or HER a bad mood should be avoided (unless you are self-confident enough to make her smile again). Please also read Smile and Don't be a Crybaby.
Maybe the only exception (where you actually CAN say that you hate something) are "spiders". Women usually hate spiders/bugs/midges/... too. But don't forget to add "I usually kill them whenever I see them" to become her hero :-)
Moreover, don't start fights. Fights are something you do not want to have in a human-human relationship. Fights have winners and losers. But you shouldn't want to make your partner lose. Nor your partner you. Do some "peaceful negotiating" where everybody wins instead.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership advice#8
Say her Name
Get her first name. Say: "Hello, I am John" and then she will most probably tell you her name out of politeness. Use her name thruout the talks with her. This alone creates a more intimate atmosphere.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Love advice#9
Wear a fluffy pullover
If it's cold outside then wear the most fluffy pullover you can find. Many women will get the desire to hug and snuggle this pullover. It will create a friendly hug-atmosphere.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership rule#10
Different Aftershaves
If you are dating a woman on several days then use a different aftershave/perfume each time. Ask her how she likes it and then use the one she gave the most positive response to.
You may also use more expensive perfumes to not smell like anybody else. If a woman knows a little bit about how other men smell she will notice the difference.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship tip#11
Don't be drunk
For women who want to make the first step and are incredibly shy a drunk man may be welcome. But for most women a drunk man is a no-go. The alcohol stench and the slavering is usually UNWANTED. Moreover you may also get a bad fame.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership tip#12
Dress nicely
Wear good clothes, e.g. a good shirt and a tie. Probably you should ask some girls what clothes they like a man to wear or you should go clothes-shopping with a female relative or a female co-worker.
Important note: A lot of women pay a lot attention to SHOES.
Don't wear those clothes at all costs even when they are inappropriate or don't suit you. Example: Don't wear a tie and your new shoes while swimming. OK, this is an exaggeration, but imagine yourself going bowling and you wear beautiful but uncomfortable clothes that make you sweat? Or going to the movies with a Hawaiian T-shirt.
On the other hand (since you are looking for a girl-friend anywhere) dress well whenever and wherever you go. You go shopping? Shave and dress well! You go to an exhibition? Shave and dress well. You go to a football match? Shave and dress well!
Another important thought: Woman are usually very "clothes-aware". In fact they communicate thru clothes and thru make-up (they wear shorter skirts and redder lipstick to show they are datable). Thus by wearing good clothes YOU establish immediately a communication line, too.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership rule#13
Stay fit
Be fit. Do some sport.
* If you are fit it will make you look better
* If you are fit it will increase your self-esteem
* If you are fit it will help you in the bedroom department
Now what can happen if you are not looking fit and healthy? Two major things:
1. Others may think you are ill and this will cause a repulsive reaction
2. You yourself may think you are ill and thus you may walk around with the "hidden wish" that "others should stay away"
In this sense: Do some walks, take some vitamins and lose some pounds.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#14
Future Father
The difference in thinking of a man and a woman can produce great misunderstandings but can help you to date more women.
Imagine the following situation: You sit alone at the bar. A woman comes along and wants to stand you a beer and go home with her. You would go most probably. Most men would.
Now consider the opposite: You are a man and you go around and ask other women directly to stand them a beer and come home with you. Most probably they won't go with you! The reason is a difference in thinking. For you as a man an offer must make "logical sense" or "sexual sense". For a woman it must make "emotional sense" and "friendship sense".
That means every approach to a woman should have the ingredient of "Look, lady, I could be the father of your children. I am well-dressed, discreet, humorous and understanding".
Would you (as a man) ever refuse a sex offer from a woman just because a) she is not well-dressed b) she is not humorous c) she often talks about sex d) she is not understanding? Most probably you wouldn't. You see? A total differing perception system "Woman vs. Man".
Even if she wants a one-night-stand only you should approach her as the "future father of her children". I am not talking about cheesy pick up lines as "Wanna be pregnant by Christmas?". I am talking about the "approaching attitude".
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Love rule#15
Serious Boy-friend
Another theme related to the Future father is that of the Serious boy-friend. Although a woman wants probably merely a short affair it doesn't mean that you should not take her seriously. I don't mean to pounce on her with statements like "We will stay together forever". I am talking about a "serious attitude". I am talking about "not treating her as a day fly". Treat her politely, don't take her for granted. Treat her as a potential partner for a longer lasting relationship.
You can corroborate your serious intentions by mentioning future plans: Plan to go out next Friday to X, and next week to Y and next month to Z.
This also applies to the time AFTER you have established a relationship (or after sex). Reassure her, that you still like her. If you go, then tell her where to and when you will meet again. Make her breakfast and read Little Things for big Love.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Love rule#16
Don't be a shock for parents
The Future Father rule also explains why you have to dress nicely: The girl has to be sure that she can introduce you to her parents (or to close friends) without making a fool out of herself. OK, this is not a strict motif but why shouldn't you dress well anyway?
Please also read: Be presentable.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Dating recommendation#17
Don't shout, don't interrupt
If you watch TV talks closely you will notice that women are nearly always interrupted by men but not vice versa. Try to be different in that regard. Do not shout, do not interrupt a woman.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#18
Don't be a Crybaby
If you give vent to your feelings this can tell the woman that you are weak and she needs to be your talk friend. But to date her you need to show the direct opposite: That YOU are HER strong shoulder; that you are self-confident; that you know what to do; and that SHE can rely on YOUR emotional strength to be a help for HER.
Thus starting to talk about "your past mistakes", about "your problems", about "why girls have left you" is the wrong thing to do.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#19
Let women talk and help
Women love to talk (just think of how long they talk on the telephone). Women like to help (just think of a typical "female" job: nurse, kindergarten teacher, geriatric nurse...). Combine those attributes and you got a talk up and running by asking the woman: "Could I ask you for help? Could you tell me why/what/how/...". Ask her any question you like as long as the question is non-answerable by a simple "Yes" or "No".
Believe it or not, but maybe you have failed in your last dating attempt because you maneuvered yourself into dead-end answers. If you ask a girl "Have you been long here?" then practically anything she can answer is a dead end. She could answer "No, not long" or "A couple of minutes" but both answers do not lead into a nice conversational flow.
Many men (since men are practical-minded) want a "clear and simple" answer. For dating purposes that kind of "questioning strategy" is absolutely wrong.
Train by simply re-phrasing some of your question. Wrong: "Do you like this place?", right: "What do you think about this place?". You get the idea. In other words: Let her TALK. (This is just a simple example and I am not telling you to ask women that question).
Or ask her something like: "What do you think is the most common flaw men have?" or "I am writing for dating-forum.com. Could you help me by telling me what feature your ideal man should have?". Let her talk for hours.
Typical "open questions" start with
* Why....?
* How....?
* What....?
* Where/When.....?
You get the idea.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#20
Be a Friend
There is an important side note to Let women talk and help: Women need good friends. Start to be her understanding friend and she will be grateful and rewarding. She may even introduce you to her other girl-friends. This Be a friend rule is also a side rule of Future father and Serious boyfriend.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship recommendation#21
Trust barrier
Women have the fear to "open up" too much. To "invest too much emotions". To be "hurt too easily". That is a barrier you must overcome by making her TRUST you.
Imagine a world where women had more muscles than men and were taller and were known to be more aggressive. Now additionally add the need to have a real friend and the urge to share emotions. I bet in such a world men would build these "trust barriers", too.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship advice#22
Don't touch a Woman
Don't touch. Being touched without having agreed to be touched IS a real turn-off for women. You can spoil everything.
However you can touch her by accident after a certain relaxed atmosphere has been established: While reaching to something, while sitting down...
Moreover you can use "excuses" to touch her, e.g. when slow dancing. Read also Learn how to palm read.
Touching shows her that you are a man. A possible boy-friend. And not one of those too-friendly-nice-guys. Moreover a touch cuts directly thru her social barriers (= bypasses her defense system) and thus is a form of heavy non-verbal communication.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Dating advice#23
Touch softly
If you touch her, then very softly. Hug, snuggle, cuddle. Women love soft touches. So once you managed to be more intimate with her (dancing, holding hands) don't spoil that by being "too blatantly sexual".
You can hold her hands and let her feel that she is admired.
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership advice#24
Magnetic Mystery Man
Many women don't simply date YOU. They date a mysterious man who actually happens to walk by with your body. Thus clouding yourself in a mystery can help. If you walk in and the girl thinks "Wait a minute, who is this man??" then you have already hit the first target. "Aroused by curiosity" so to speak.
You could tell things from your life, but without giving the full background just to "mysteriousify" yourself . You could say, "I saved many lives of stray cats... these poor little creatures." (only if it's true, of course) but not telling WHY. She wouldn't know whether you are a veterinarian or a fireman or whatever. Woman LIKE to be in a wonderworld with their fantasies going (= too much information spoils fantasies).
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Partnership rule#25
Fascinating non-answers
As a continuation of the Magnetic Mystery Man rule you can fascinate a girl by making incomplete sentences: "Hey, you know whom you remind me of? By the way I am John. Do you like this place here?"
Do you have a dating advice? Any comment? Write us!
Relationship advice#26
Learn how to palm read
This is a highly interesting technique because is combines several tips on this site: Learn how to read the future from her palm:
* You can hold her hand while reading.
* Reading palms is always good for fun, smiles and a relaxed atmosphere. Women love that.
* You can get sexual without actually being sexual ("You will have three children and many love affairs"). You just tell the "facts" as an "independent" third party. It will put her in a sexual mood anyway.
* You get her fantasies going
* You make her interested (everybody wants to know the future)
* You make her feel interesting (since you even want to "read her life's destiny")
* You do her a favor (since palm reading usually costs something)
* You show that you are something special (not many people can read palms)
* You show her that you are empathic and spiritual and non-materialistic (not many boys are esoteric-minded)
* You learn a lot of things about her (since she will be telling you "Yes, this is true" or "No, I don't think so")
* You show her that she can be your friend (since she already tells you her secrets)
* You are surrounded by a mystery ("Hey, does this boy really know everything about me? Who is he anyway?")
* Nearly automatically she will propose (after you have finished to read her palm) to read the palms of her girl-friends.
It takes only a palm reader book and a one or two days of reading.
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Monday, December 28, 2009
Do Bad Guys Always Get the Girl? When Mr. Nice loses out to Mr. Naughty in the dating game
If we are to believe the movies, the ruthless tough guy always gets the girl. And didn't it seem that the bad boys at school always had the hottest babes? The best looking girls always seem to love the bad guys. Maybe because the best looking guys always became the bad guys? Everywhere we tend to see bad guys and nice girls. We see fools and meatheads with the girls of our fantasies. In the mall we see our flaxen haired goddesses with America's Most Wanted. Is it nature at work, is it us, what has gone awry?
Men are confused. We like to refer to stereotypes and work from them. Men are told that we need to be a hero and a tough guy. But then we are told we need to be in touch with our sensitive sides. Meanwhile the man down the street who treats his girlfriends like crap, never calls, is rude and disrespect appears to have a fan club developing. Life, my friends, can seem unfair. But let's look at what is going on with this scenario.
Interest. Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things. They have strayed from the straight-and-narrow and have developed their own code of conduct. They do what they want. They go where they want. They answer to no one. They are, in other words, fascinating. Tow the line, do as you are told and inevitably you will be become dull. Mavericks are interesting, straight guys are not.
Bad guys are confident and self assured. They know what they're about and don't really care what others think. They are their own men and don't need others to prop them up. Bad guys don't have to be in shape, just look at James Galdofini from The Sopranos, who is immensely attractive despite his rotund appearance. Some can become almost caricaturesof themselves, but that doesn't make them any less attractive.
Plus bad guys are a challenge. We all love a challenge, and women may love a challenge even more than the boys. If something is a challenge, the end results must surely be worthwhile, right? The girls who go after bad guys want to find the pot of gold at the end of crazy rainbow. They will go to great lengths to solve their mysteries. And once they have them, once they've conquered the challenge, they don't want to let go. Plus it makes for an exciting rollercoaster ride because the bad guy could walk away at any moment. The greater the danger of loosing a bad guy, the greater the effort they'll put forth to keep them. And there may be a lesson there.
What do we have if we combine these facets? Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality equals sexiness. That is exactly what the bad boy is, so it's no surprise that this type of guy often get the gal. It doesn't mean to say that we like them, and it doesn't mean it is fair or even a good thing, but raw attraction can be nature's way.
I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. Not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our arsenal of dating weaponry. How you perceive yourself that matters the most. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on the right tracks, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life, then you'll get that bad boy confidence. And that attitude will boost your attractiveness. You don't need to go around being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more enigmatic. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.
http://www.topdatingtips.com/bad-guys.htm
The modern dating game is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics, analyze what is it that you think potential partners would like and think about how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.
Men are confused. We like to refer to stereotypes and work from them. Men are told that we need to be a hero and a tough guy. But then we are told we need to be in touch with our sensitive sides. Meanwhile the man down the street who treats his girlfriends like crap, never calls, is rude and disrespect appears to have a fan club developing. Life, my friends, can seem unfair. But let's look at what is going on with this scenario.
Interest. Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things. They have strayed from the straight-and-narrow and have developed their own code of conduct. They do what they want. They go where they want. They answer to no one. They are, in other words, fascinating. Tow the line, do as you are told and inevitably you will be become dull. Mavericks are interesting, straight guys are not.
Bad guys are confident and self assured. They know what they're about and don't really care what others think. They are their own men and don't need others to prop them up. Bad guys don't have to be in shape, just look at James Galdofini from The Sopranos, who is immensely attractive despite his rotund appearance. Some can become almost caricaturesof themselves, but that doesn't make them any less attractive.
Plus bad guys are a challenge. We all love a challenge, and women may love a challenge even more than the boys. If something is a challenge, the end results must surely be worthwhile, right? The girls who go after bad guys want to find the pot of gold at the end of crazy rainbow. They will go to great lengths to solve their mysteries. And once they have them, once they've conquered the challenge, they don't want to let go. Plus it makes for an exciting rollercoaster ride because the bad guy could walk away at any moment. The greater the danger of loosing a bad guy, the greater the effort they'll put forth to keep them. And there may be a lesson there.
What do we have if we combine these facets? Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality equals sexiness. That is exactly what the bad boy is, so it's no surprise that this type of guy often get the gal. It doesn't mean to say that we like them, and it doesn't mean it is fair or even a good thing, but raw attraction can be nature's way.
I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. Not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our arsenal of dating weaponry. How you perceive yourself that matters the most. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on the right tracks, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life, then you'll get that bad boy confidence. And that attitude will boost your attractiveness. You don't need to go around being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more enigmatic. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.
http://www.topdatingtips.com/bad-guys.htm
The modern dating game is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics, analyze what is it that you think potential partners would like and think about how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.
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